Just to start off by saying I've had dogs my entire life, but only ever rescues never a puppy. Our last boy was a lovely rescue Greyhound and the love of my life, he passed away quite suddenly from cancer a few months ago and it absolutely destroyed us.
We decided to get a puppy to 'have the most time we could' with them especially after feeling like we didn't get all we should with our Greyhound. We bought home our 5 month (nearly 6 months) old whippet on 01/11/25 and I think I've made the worst mistake of my life. I dread being alone with him as he just runs rapid around the house destroying and trying to eat everything, he has toys, he has teething aids and goes on plenty of walks a day. I know he might be overtired but he's nap resistant.
I find myself genuinely hating him, he's destroying the house I worked hard to make home, I like having walks with him as then he's not destroying the house and he seems a bit nervous on them and it's nice to see him a bit calmer. We've been using our kitchen as his 'crate' when he goes in he just cries and barks which I know is normal but it makes me feel so bad I end up caving. He doesn't really listen to me, only my husband and he's been at the football the last two Sundays leaving me alone with him and it's making me resent him too. I feel literally nothing positive for this dog and I'm getting angry like really angry. I'm really close to giving up and it's just making me really miss my good boy.
When does it actually get better as I can't go on like this.
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