Our 1yo rescue Chiweenie we've had for about a month came to us pretty traumatized, but she has been really resilient and is adapting fast. We adore her, and she is getting along pretty well with our 5yo Chipit (Chitbull?) so far, but the biggest problem we are having is that she won't let us pet him or let him cuddle with us. She forces herself in-between him and us if he tries to sit next to us, she will bite his face like she wants to play with him if we try to pet him, and she will run and take his spot on the bed before he gets there. It's starting to make my dog depressed and it's not making me very happy either.
I want to assure you, this little gal is NOT hurting for attention. She is an unstoppable force of nature and a complete ham in a house of 3 adults who love her and work from home. She is in somebody's lap most of the day unless it's by her own design. But when I try to pay attention to our other dog, who has been extremely patient throughout this, she acts like we are going to instantly forget about her. We've done the dual petting, and in the first few weeks we did everything fairly synchronously. We do try separating them so they get their own activities, like taking one for a walk while my husband plays with the other in the back yard, or quiet time in another room behind a closed door. We do a lot of "group snuggles" in order to fit both dogs in, but that kinda feels like a shared birthday. It would be nice to not have to do that and be able to just love my dog when I want.
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