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  • Suggestions for helping my puppy build his tolerance of being frustrated

    I have a 6 month old lab x puppy that we adopted at just under 3 months old. His mom came into care pregnant and so he was born in foster care and then neutered and placed up for adoption. He has come a long way since first getting him (was easily aroused, mouthy, extremely confident and reactive). I’ve trained and worked with many dogs however he has definitely tested my ability. He has been in puppy classes / puppy socialization since we brought him home and has come a long way in his impulse control. I am aware he’s in his adolescence stage however this was an issue before but has now increased. He has very little ability to mange his frustration. When we are training and he becomes frustrated we reward a sit or down and calm behaviour. He’s desensitized to walking by dogs and is excellent at wait and leave it, sitting at doors and loose leash walking however he is still easily set off by frustration. A lot of the suggestions online are regarding impulse control which he is quite good at yet it doesn’t seem to be helping with his ability to manage his emotions/frustration. He is still going to training however I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions of additional things I can start working on to increase his capacity to manage excitement and allow him to learn to settle. He knows place and go to bed as well as kennel. An example of the behaviour is he sits at the door and waits to be released and we continue down the stairs to go outside – then out of nowhere he starts biting ankles and immediately escalates. Asking him to sit he will and I give treats and reward the calm – often waiting for 5 + mins but then the minute we attempt to move again he immediately escalates and jumps to bite arms. Another example is he loves to play and will read other dogs body language but is a bit delayed in his reading – we’ve been helping him by supervising and using high reward treats to pull him out give everybody a break and then let them play again. Often he can engage and disengage however there’s also times where he gets frustrated and escalates to where he is unable to calm down enough to play appropriately. I’m feeling lost as I’m having trouble figuring out why his ability to tolerate things change despite little to no change in the scenario and I’m looking to help him increase his ability to tolerate being frustrated. Thanks in advance

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  • Long lasting Enrichment toys

    We adopted a 10 month old Standard Poodle. We are working on kennel training, and getting her used to our schedule of being home alone for 3-4 hours at a time. We havent seen her totally shred any toys, but to be safe I am avoiding frabric and plastic (Puzzles, lickmats, stuffed animals) We have a kong, but I am hoping to find more than 1 option. She does try to eat socks, so snufflemats are out. Any suggestions appreciated. TIA! 😊

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  • Heartbroken — I have to relocate and can’t take my dog with me. How can I make this easier for him (and for us)? 💔

    Hi everyone,

    I’m writing this with a heavy heart. Due to an unexpected emergency, I have to relocate to another country, and sadly, it’s not viable to take my dog Pluto with me. He’s a 4-year-old Siberian Laika–German Shepherd mix — loyal, intelligent, and deeply loved. Unfortunately, the climate in the new country just isn’t suitable for him.

    One of his sibling’s owners has kindly agreed to adopt him, and while I’m incredibly grateful, I’m also devastated. Pluto has grown up with my daughter, my wife, and me. He’s very attached to us, and the thought of leaving him behind is breaking us apart.

    For anyone who’s had to rehome a dog they love — how can I make this transition as gentle as possible for him?

    • How early should we start taking him to visit his new home?
    • Would it help if I spent time with him there for a few days before we move?
    • How long does it usually take for dogs to settle emotionally in a new environment?

    I just want to do what’s best for him, even though my heart feels shattered.

    Thank you all for reading — I really needed to share this somewhere people would understand. ❤️

    Life will never be the same again without Pluto

    Thank you ❤️

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  • Does the consistency of a treat affect command retention?

    We have a 5-month old Pembroke Corgi who has been with us for just over 2 months. We've been trying to train her recall, but she's pretty hit or miss. We've been using boiled chicken—should we stick to just that every time to help her remember it better?

    And my other question is: what high-value treats would you recommend that can be cooked at home? Thank you very much! ☺️

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  • Does a retractable fetch toy exist?

    Sometimes I know my dog wants to play fetch but I just don’t have the energy to go get the toy if he doesn’t bring it back.

    Is there any toy you know of that I can throw and get it back without moving?

    Like a ball attached to a wire so you can pull it back if needed

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  • Is it bad that puppy won’t use chews/play/eat in play pen when I leave?

    My almost 6 month old pup and I have been working a lot on his separation anxiety (had him for 7 weeks). He's now pretty okay if I leave him in his play pen and go to another room to WFH, but he won't engage with anything in his pen (food/water/kongs/toys/safe chews) unless I'm in it with him, or sometimes if I'm right outside of it. I'm trying to help him learn alone time/independent time is good but since he doesn't engage with anything, it's hard going. He naps or lies there looking sad. He WILL play/chew outside of the pen so it's not the items he has access to.

    If I'm in the house still he will settle down on his own now (sometimes immediately, sometimes it takes him 10 minutes or so) but if I have to leave he just barks the whole time. I'm trying to avoid him getting above threshold but it is unrealistic for me to never leave him alone ever and yes I have tried ALL of the things and we continue to work on them (rewarding calmness, Door is a Bore, kikopup's videos, leaving for a short time and returning, etc.). The fact that he is now okay with me being in another room is honestly huge progress, but how can I encourage him to use the things in his pen? I feel like that would really help him for when I have to actually leave.

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  • Puppy car seat question

    Hello! My golden boy is just over 5 months old and he is amazing! He does well with everything expect the car, I’m using a car harness that buckles into my car seatbelt like I’ve done with all my other dogs (not goldens) but he is so rambunctious and excited when I drive he ends up trying to crawl into my lap and obviously this isn’t safe- the seatbelt gives him to much ability to move around. Does anyone have any better suggestions? I’ve looked on Amazon but I don’t see anything and he is growing fast (31+ lbs currently) I can’t really fit a crate in my car that’s big enough

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  • Same thing as my dog

    Yep my Swiss shepherd is exactly like your dog. Not bothered by planes she can see taking off and landing but contrails generate panic, fear and running to find safety. Every 4 seconds all day long looks at the sky searching for contrails. I have no idea how to desensitise a dog with these as there is no way to replicate or know when the contrails will arise

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  • Struggling to get puppy to go outside

    Hi everyone,

    We have a 5 month old puppy that we are struggling to get to like going outside. We carried him outside for the first few weeks we had him because he was still learning how to walk down stairs. He would do his business outside just fine then dart back to the door to go in. He’s now comfortable with stairs (the inside stairs are now his personal agility course, ha ha), so I know it’s not that. We’ve tried treats and celebration when he is in the yard. We’ve also tried high reward treats just for outside, but there is no treat we’ve found that the reward is high enough. Won’t even go near the door on his own. Just wanted to see if anyone had any other advice.

    Not sure if this is related, but could be. He was older than I’m used to when getting a puppy from a breeder (18 weeks) and I don’t think he actually went outside much while living there. They had a really nice deck built out to an artificial outside area.

    Thanks in advance!

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