I’ve had my Sheltie puppy for about two months now and I just haven’t connected with him. When I got him I thought he’d be my hiking companion like my last dog but instead he’s terrified of the car and can’t go anywhere for walks because he is too panicked and just pulls and vomits and is generally upset.
He’s too afraid to walk to the road because of passing cars so we are left walking circles around the front and backyard and driveway several times a day for his walks. We do a long line which he enjoys but he’s only comfortable walking on our property and so having him has been really isolating.
I take him on short car rides every day to get him used to the car but he’s still as scared as ever, thrashing about and crying even though he knows the ride is only down the street and back.
When we are at home he doesn’t like to play when I try to engage him. He has decided my bedroom is his favorite place to be and just stays in there all day one even if I’m not in the room. He just doesn’t have any personality that I can connect to and I’m at a loss for what to do to try to bond with him. We spend or of time together, he is sitting across from me napping as I type this, but that time isn’t translating into a bond.
This is my first puppy so maybe I just need to wait longer for him to become who he is? Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do to have more fun with him? I live in a big property with no fence so I can’t let him off leash right now because he could get lost. If we could master the car that would open up the world for us as he’s a very sweet dog who I’d like to take everywhere I can.
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