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  • I thought things were getting better, now I’m crying again

    She’s seven months old and I’ve had her for three months. She’s nine pounds so she’s heading into semi adulthood as compared to larger breed dogs.

    In the last two weeks, she was finally seeming to understand potty training and she recently slept until 4:40 am! We were at 3 am for months so really a huge deal! I thought finally, she’s feeling like family instead of just all work. She was still barking when I left the house, but hadn’t loose pooped or peed and we’d worked our way out of anxiety (banging the crate etc) and into just complaining for a bit barking. She even had an okay puppy class where she could calm enough for about half the class to be mostly educational!! I was thinking wow instead of only on or off modes she’s finding her low key friend mode!

    Now enter today. I work from home and she decided her normal nap in crate time was unacceptable so she started yelling in a dog complaining way. I had to move her out of the office and she yelled the entire hour long meeting and pooped her crate. (No she wasn’t overdue for a potty break she has always pooped if she gets to any yelling.) I had to run an errand tonight and within minutes she had semi-loose pooped her crate and danced on it so her feet were covered. It feels like three months of routine and effort is just poof, gone. I’m having a rough day.

    I’ve had other dogs and this one might be the death of me. Don’t worry I’m still not being mean to her and she goes to the vet and I even have a professional trainer, I’m just frustrated and venting.

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  • Teething is driving me crazy

    Can’t say exactly how old my puppy is since he’s a stray but the vet when I first took him guessed around 6 weeks so now he’s around 14-16 weeks. Have very very little information on him other than what we learn as he grows. No idea what breed he is, I asked the vet her best guess and she said her and all the staff were tossing out Pyrenees, Golden retriever, or Lab mix. I’ve bonded with him. I love him so so much. He quite literally gave me a reason to live after losing my soul dog back in October. Potty training has been a nightmare but we’re managing with just a few pee accidents here and there. Now the main issue is teething. He’s biting hard. I feel like I’m constantly buying him new toys to chew on but he doesn’t gnaw on them. He totes them around and likes to play fetch but doesn’t actually use them for their primary purpose. He would rather bite me. Hard. So so hard. It’s wearing on my sanity and hurts really bad. I’m all scarred up and he’s got to where he draws blood and has bitten my face a couple times. I do everything I’ve seen people recommend in this thread. I stop play altogether. I replace my flesh with toys. I separate myself from him. I’ve tried frozen carrots and unfrozen carrots. Nothing works. I can’t just sit with him and pet him without him wanting to rip into me. I’ve never had a puppy that bit this much.

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  • Need help with my puppy’s reactivity + potty training!

    Hello!

    I have had my corgi for about 4 months. She’s 6 months old. She has gone through regression in every area. Such as her crate training , walking , etc. It was very hard to socialize her in the beginning as I couldn’t afford her vaccinations at the time. She’s been fully vaccinated for about 2 months but her socialization has gotten worse. She’s went from just attempting to run away and hide from random dogs we see on walks to now full on lunging and barking at dogs AND people. I have tried taking her to parks and pet stores to just desensitize her but I don’t think this is helping?

    Her potty training has also regressed really bad. She only pees inside on pee pads now when before she was able to pee outdoors. When I take her out in the morning with pee pads she is very much on high alert and refuses to even sniff the pee pad instead she’s pulling and trying to eat things off the floor. We could be outside not even walking for 30 mins but won’t pee or poop. Once back inside she will immediately run to do her business on the pad.

    Are there any tips that may help with the reactivity and also potty training?? I’m feeling so overwhelmed especially since I have a job and don’t have the extra time to train her for longer than 30 mins at a time. Please help !!!

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  • Still struggling at 17 weeks. No regrets but advice appreciated.

    We have had our (currently 47lb 17 week) labradoodle Oliver since 8 weeks. So far he has been doing great in some areas and then seems to be regressing and struggling in others. It’s like he gets one skill down or one bad behavior fixed and two more bad behaviors pop up. He knows a lot of basic skills and training and is incredibly smart…. Too smart. He is insanely bossy, demanding, and sometimes downright mean when he wants something.

    Right now my biggest struggles are barking and this wild jump bite super combo of doom. The barking: he barks when we are out and he wants to leave (we’ve tried kongs, chews, toys etc to keep him entertained, we are working on mat training but about 10 minutes into being somewhere he starts barking and won’t stop till we leave), he also barks at my cats, at us when we are working in the kitchen, and when we are taking too long to give him attention or whatever he wants. I feel like I have tried everything so I’m open to any suggestions.

    His wild jump bite super combo happens when he’s like mad at us? Like if we leave him on the gated patio to grab something out of the car we always have him sit when we open the gate and the second we get in and turn he lunges towards our backs and bites. He gets impressive height and has nailed the back of my arm, ripped many shirt sleeves, and he just keeps going till we get away or are able to get him to sit. He also does it during training sessions, when we stop him from chasing the cats, or other random times. Again, any and all advice would be so amazing.

    I want to be clear that I don’t regret getting him at all and he is a very good gremlin boy and has been catching on to things very quickly. He was crate trained in a couple days, potty trained in less than a week, knows sit, down, stay, roll over, shake and up (when he’s not in full gremlin mode). I just need some advice on how to solve these two things before I lose my mind.

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  • Best way to stop puppy from nipping at kids.

    I have a 6 month old pup and two kids ages 5 and 6. Puppy is obviously being a puppy and my kids rile her and she nips at them. I always just redirect and give her toys with a sharp NO but wondering if I should be doing more.

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  • Training a 7 month old

    I adopted a 7 month old border collie/corgi mix last week. He is so sweet, listens well, is crate trained, potty trained, but as he starts to get more comfortable he is starting to become more vocal (he previously did not make much noise) which is okay but I don't want it to escalate and become an issue. How can I deal with this new behavior so that it does not get worse?

    He is also starting to jump up on us at random times when he didn't before. Again, I dont want this to progress into a future issue, so do we go the route of guiding him off of us with saying down and not making a big deal of it? Do we turn away from him without saying anything? Or is there a better option for this?

    Also- how long should basic commands take? I was working with him 2 days ago on giving paw. I did this by holding a hand in my closed fist and allowing him to sniff until he touched my hand with his paw. By the time we finished training for the day he wasn't getting the concept of giving paw without a treat in my hand, but today he did it multiple times without a treat ever being offered (yay!) I started working with him tonight on stay. He seemed to get it some times and other times got up too quickly. I stopped training for the night because I could sense him getting reckless and only wanting the treat so he wasn't staying as well as he was at first. I know each dog is different so they will all get things at different times, but how do I know when to stop? I also worry about giving him too many treats lol.

    There have been certain things that he doesn't get a treat for during training or even now. When he successfully started pottying outside, when he comes to the door and sits to get his harness on/off before/after going outside. So I know he isn't always food motivated and I am so proud of the progress so far.

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  • 8 weeks vs 6 months puppy

    I’ve been struggling to find a Havanese puppy and found a 6 month old puppy recently. Not sure whether to go with this puppy, or a wait to find a 8 weeks old puppy. This would be first dog of our own. Any thoughts/ experience to share?

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  • Chronic Hyperarousal

    We have a 9 month old asian spitz type pup – I don’t want to be specific about his breed because the breed community is very small, and I’d like to be able to vent without worrying about judgement from a fellow owner or breeder. He’s our second dog of this breed – our first was the most incredible being I’ve ever had the honor of knowing. We also raised him from puppyhood, and he was intelligent, gentle, contemplative, and affectionate. We lost him to sudden illness last year. We have breed experience and a good understanding of what this breed needs in terms of mental and physical stimulation.

    We adopted our current pup from his breeder at 9 weeks old, and we knew *immediately* that settling was going to be a struggle for him. I’ve had dogs my entire life – rescues, purebreds, puppies, seniors, labs, shepherds – and I’ve never encountered a dog who struggles to regulate the way our poor boy does. In the time between 9 weeks and 9 months, he’s never once voluntarily settled or napped for even five minutes. We’ve worked tirelessly on settle/place training, we’ve been doing various relaxation protocols since the first week he came home, we’ve tried varying how much/how little stimulation we provide, and none of it has translated to even a small measure of relaxation. He paces the house relentlessly if he’s not constantly engaged. He’s crate-trained and is quiet/calm in his crate, but even after months of regular, enforced naps, he still emerges from the crate and is almost immediately over-stimulated. Worth mentioning that we live in a very quiet and calm house – two adults, no kids or other animals. We live on a large wooded property, take him for daily hikes at nearby parks, and provide mental stimulation in the form of nose work, obedience training, puzzle toys, chews, and rip-up boxes. We’re both home with him all day, so outside of enforced naps, he spends very little time in a crate.

    We consulted a veterinary behaviorist today, and she feels strongly that he has hypersensitivity-hyperarousal syndrome. She prescribed fluoxetine (Prozac) and says that dogs with similar anxiety-related behavior struggles typically respond very well to it. She said we could wait to start the medication until after he’s neutered – we hope to have him neutered in the next month, and even though I know it’s very unlikely, I’m hoping maybe it helps his behavior in some way. She did warn that waiting to medicate could potentially give his hyperarousal time to become even more habitual than it already is. While I know that objectively his condition isn’t necessarily a failure on our part (or his!), emotionally it feels a lot like failure.

    Just wanting to vent and seek experience from anyone who has been through something similar. I’d love to hear from anyone with experience with fluoxetine, anyone whose dog was similar and just needed time to mature, anyone for whom neutering was a magic bullet (although I’ve read the research and know this is rare). I’ve never had to medicate a dog for behavioral issues – I’ve never even had to seek professional help for behavior issues. I want him to be happy and well, and we’re willing to do whatever it takes to get him there. Appreciate any help.

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  • Chew resistant bed recommendations

    Hey guys!

    Over the past few months, I have gone through several beds with my pup. She always seems to find a way to rip up a bed. I would love some recommendations for durable but affordable dog bed options you’ve had luck with!

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  • Best small/med breeds for toddlers & cats

    **Introduction**

    1) Will this be your first dog? If not, what experience do you have owning/training dogs?

    No, I’ve owned a Golden Retriever and a Corgi.

    2) Do you have a preference for rescuing a dog vs. going through a [reputable breeder]( http://ownresponsibly.blogspot.com/2011/07/identifying-reputable-breeder.html)?

    No. Leaning towards reputable breeder due to the importance of dog having a good temperament.

    3) Describe your ideal dog.

    Calm, patient, playful, cuddly. Won’t obsessively chase our cats. Good with young children (ages 1and 3)

    4) What breeds or types of dogs are you interested in and why?

    Beagle, yorkie, Havanese, cavapoo, mini daschund, Labrador.

    5) What sorts of things would you like to train your dog to do?

    Basic obedience. Not pulling on leash.

    6) Do you want to compete with your dog in a sport (e.g. agility, obedience, rally) or use your dog for a form of work (e.g. hunting, herding, livestock guarding)? If so, how much experience do you have with this work/sport?

    No

    **Care Commitments**

    7) How long do you want to devote to training, playing with, or otherwise interacting with your dog each day?

    More time at first when it’s a puppy. Then probably 30 min walks once or twice per day, with intermittent play throughout the day.

    8) How long can you exercise your dog each day, on average? What sorts of exercise are you planning to give your dog regularly and does that include using a dog park?

    30 min- 1 hr. Includes walks and dog parks.

    9) How much regular brushing are you willing to do? Are you open to trimming hair, cleaning ears, or doing other grooming at home? If not, would you be willing to pay a professional to do it regularly?

    Brushing ok occasionally or daily. Don’t want to groom much on my own.

    **Personal Preferences**

    10) What size dog are you looking for?

    Under 60 lbs. Small to medium.

    11) How much shedding, barking, and slobber can you handle?

    Don’t want a lot of barking or slobber. Some shedding ok.

    12) How important is being able to let your dog off-leash in an unfenced area?

    Low importance

    **Dog Personality and Behavior**

    13) Do you want a snuggly dog or one that prefers some personal space?

    Snuggly

    14) Would you prefer a dog that wants to do its own thing or one that’s more eager-to-please?

    Eager to please

    15) How would you prefer your dog to respond to someone knocking on the door or entering your yard? How would you prefer your dog to greet strangers or visitors?

    Don’t want dog going crazy with knocks on door.

    16) Are you willing to manage a dog that is aggressive to other dogs?

    No

    17) Are there any other behaviors you can’t deal with or want to avoid?

    Aggression with cats or children.

    **Lifestyle**

    18) How often and how long will the dog be left alone?

    Not often at all. There’s almost always at least one adult at home.

    19) What are the dog-related preferences of other people in the house and what will be their involvement in caring for the dog?

    My husband has the same preference as myself.

    20) Do you have other pets or are you planning on having other pets? What breed or type of animal are they?

    3 cats. One 14 yrs & two 8 month old kittens

    21) Will the dog be interacting with children regularly?

    Yes. Two boys, ages 1 & 3.

    22) Do you rent or plan to rent in the future? If applicable, what breed or weight restrictions are on your current lease?

    No. Own a home

    23) What city or country do you live in and are you aware of any laws banning certain breeds?

    Near Atlanta. No laws.

    24) What is the average temperature of a typical summer and winter day where you live?

    Avg summer day is 80-95 and humid. Winters are mild, but can get down to mid 20’s or 30’s on occasion.

    **Additional Information and Questions**

    25) Please provide any additional information you feel may be relevant.

    * No additional information.

    26) Feel free to ask any questions below.

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