Hi! So my dog has been doing this thing like once a day for the past couple of days. She will wiggle on her back and pant while putting her paws over her eyes. I can't attach the video right now but it's been a bit concerning. We don't know if this is just a thing she does or if we should seek medical attention for her. We adopted her a month ago so we're still getting to know her.

I've already sent an email to our vet with the video I took so we are waiting to see if they tell us to take her in. Just wanted another perspective.

I'm picking up my puppy in a couple weeks. We have three flight legs. All things working perfectly we fly out at 5 am for 2.5 hours – 1-hour layover, 3.5-hour flight – 2-hour layover 1.5 hour flight and home

She's tiny. Will easily fit in a carry-on "crate" under the seat.

What should I bring? I mean, she's a baby so chew toys will be kind of big for her and so new to her as to be useless. I probably want to with hold food? Save water for layovers.

Anything I can do to make the experience as peaceful as possible?

According to the airline there's an extra charge? $150. When do I do that? I need to call the airline tomorrow haha.

I've read many many posts but most of them are years old.

Any tips would be appreciated. Thank you!

I don’t really post on reddit, but my family’s dog ripped out a toenail on her front paw three days ago and i’m overly anxious.

we went to the vet and everything and they gave us a cone and advice: covered with a non-permeable barrier when outside, and then leave open to air with no covering indoors.

They said the cone was the right size for her, and we have it attached to her collar so it’s a little stiffer, but this dog is able to push the cone in a way where she is still able to lick.

She already hates the current cone and gets frustrated so i think a larger one is out of the question, are there any other solutions out there?

(I don’t think this falls into veterinary advice but if so I will take the post down)

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Me and my boyfriend adopted a dog a couple weeks ago from a city shelter. She is heartworm positive and currently on doxycycline. Since coming home, she’s been a little shy but very sweet. Two days ago I left to see my family for Christmas and won’t be back for the week. We had been keeping her in her kennel when we were at work and didn’t seem to have much issue yesterday tho she broke out of the cage and chewed up a couple cords to expensive things and peed on the bed, the next day based on what people were saying we decided to doggy proof a room instead of putting her back in (since she refused to go in on her own) and this time she rips a giant whole in the wall and chews up pretty much all the little corners and things in the room, I feel at a loss as to what to do with her, I just want her to be safe and okay.

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I recently had a stray 1yro havanese dropped into my life. it was unexpected but I have a house with a fenced yard and thought maybe a new dog would be a good thing. so I decided to keep her. I'm at the point now, where I'm looking for a professional trainer, to adopt her from me. I've done everything. consistent training daily. positive reinforcement. she runs every day until she can't stand anymore. I will stand with this dog outside for 20 minutes, bring her in, and before I can get her into the kennel, she's dropped down and is peeing on my floor. I've tried everything. kennel training. potty training. pee pads. heck I even got her diapers. nothing works. training with her is like talking to a brick wall. she doesn't care what kind of treat I have, how delicious it is. she won't even look at me when I'm trying to train her. refuses to give me any kind of attention. "come" falls on deaf ears. if I didn't know better, I'd assume she was completely deaf. she has extreme separation anxiety. I cant even check the mail without her going ballistic inside. she's destroying my house and has cost me hundreds in repairs in just the couple months I've had her. I've had to replace every single area rug I own, as well as my bathroom door. I'm beyond knowing what to do to help her. advice, suggestions, etc. anything will help. but at this point I'm looking for a new home for her. but I refuse to give her to someone who doesn't have the time, kindness, love, and patience I have. the only reason I'm giving up, is because I'm a severely depressed person, and every single day I spend upwards of 3hrs fixing something she's destroyed, and recently I've had issues even getting out of bed and taking care of myself. I have had dogs my whole life and never had one that is this resistant to training, listening, obeying, calming down, etc. I'm just at a loss. please be kind in the replies but really, anything helps at this point. I don't know what to do.