My partner’s friend had a litter of puppies and they immediately wanted to jump in and get one..despite me asking for a puppy for what feels like forever.
But I stay at home, so I wanted to do research and choose the puppy myself since I would be the one doing all the majority of the work and staying with them practically 24/7 (like with our other 2 dogs – trained them myself) I have told that to my partner many times even when there was talk of getting one of those puppies from his friend’s litter. I told them NO.
They didn’t hear back from their friend for a bit, so we moved on and but his friend gave him the puppy as a surprise.
Now, I’m the one at home with him and have really bad puppy blues. I feel awful for having the puppy blues, because it’s not the puppy’s fault at all.. My partner wanted this breed since it’s rare, but I’m the one dealing with the majority of the care and training. This breed is also notorious for being stubborn and it’s unbelievably true, so that’s adding to the blues.
I told my partner this and they are just zoning on it just being my seasonal depression and it just seems like he wants to keep the puppy because of its breed..since that’s mostly what they talk about.
I just don’t know what to do anymore.
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