Please read and help 😭

I am 25 female and I live with my older parents. We have had dogs my entire life, even multiple co existing. Our pitbull passed away a year ago in October. It crushed our family so we decided to adopt a 10 week old puppy (she is a pitbull mix and her name is Sadie) We got her from a local animal shelter and she was spayed at 8 weeks old, 2 days before we took her home. I am now researching and realizing that puppies can be spayed to early. This dog is insane. I love her and we have our good moments, but she is genuinely the most hyper active insane puppy I’ve ever seen. We try everything: running out in the backyard, chew toys everywhere, snuffle boards, lick mats, you name it. She is crate trained and we have a trainer coming every 3 weeks. She knows her commands but gets insane. She gets into moods where she will jump up and bite us at any moment she can. She is in the middle of insane zoomies when she does this. No correction helps at all. Is this going to go away as she ages? We always have a leash on her and pressure train her with the leash in these situations but she does not care. She gets so crazy and nuts nothing can correct her. Our family members tell us we should re home her. My heart would break and I can’t imagine doing that to her. Please please give any recommendations or any advice you have. I want to do right by her but some days are just awful. I have been awful mentally because of her and the stress she causes. I always see people post on here and look back on their posts, and they are glad they did not give up. I am hoping that is my case.