Okay sorry in advance for the long post, I just wanted to share my puppy blues experience in hopes it’ll help others. For some backstory, I got my longhaired miniature dachshund puppy at 10 weeks and we’ve (my boyfriend and I) have had her for a little over a month now. We had been discussing getting a puppy for about a year and doing tons of research and finally decided we were in a good spot for it (financially and schedule wise).
My boyfriend has a 9-5 and I’m currently between jobs taking a break to focus on the puppy, which leaves me with 90% of puppy duties (which is expected and what we talked about, but it is way more exhausting than I anticipated) those first few weeks were a roller coaster. We discovered she had a severe hookworm infection a week into having her after she pooped blood and I panic rushed her to our vet, then a week later at her follow up appointment discovered she also had a pretty gnarly ear infection. She’s had 2 rounds of dewormer and is doing a lot better (we’re anticipating her needing a 3rd round) and we are currently treating her ear infection. Obviously, we did not plan for any of that to happen and it really did add another level of stress to everything.
Personality wise, she is veeeery energetic and very stubborn. she is like a little ball of chaos 24/7. She hasn’t cuddled with us yet because she’s just all over the place and will not sit still. She’s constantly trying to get into things we didn’t even know she could get into and she did NOT like being in her playpen for the first few weeks and definitely let us know about it which left me with basically no moments of decompression. My sleep schedule was jacked, and I felt like I wasn’t doing enough and was getting pretty deep into the puppy blues. I did more research and started trying whatever tips/tricks I could find. I started using her meals as training and bonding opportunities (she can now sit, lay down, and even goes into her crate on command) and I feel like our bond has grown so much just from this alone. I’ve also really tried to get to know her, like what toys she likes and doesn’t like, when she gets tired and needs a nap, when she gets overestimated, ect. I also began prioritizing myself a little more. My boyfriend helped me realize It’s totally okay to put her in her playpen and take some time to take care of myself. (Or trust him to take care of her) This was something I needed to get used to and basically force myself to do.
Fast forward to today and the reason I’m posting this, we’ve been letting her free roam in the living room with us (kitchen and staircase is blocked off with baby gates because I’m psycho and ocd) and I figured it would help her get her energy out and get more familiar with the space independently. I swear she is like the energizer bunny, she literally does not get tired… UNTIL Tonight. we were letting her run around and play while we were on the couch and after about 45 mins it got super quiet. I didn’t love that, so I went to go find her and she was in her playpen (by her own choice!!!) laying in her bed, sleeping. We admired her for a minute like creeps, then silently jumped around like morons in celebration. I felt like she was finally comfortable enough with us, with her playpen, and with her environment to just rest on her own. It felt like a huge win (even though it may seem dumb lol)
I just wanted to make this post to let people know the puppy blues are very real (even if you think you’re 100% prepared) but it does NOT mean you are messing up or being a bad owner. There will be times of ‘regret’ and you shouldn’t feel guilty for it. Puppies are exhausting, but It does get better and even the small wins are so worth it. Just keep going and stay persistent and it will pay off!
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