There is this one dog and owner that I run into frequently on walks. When I’m walking my dog and we are headed to cross paths, this dog owner will stop his dog and make his dog wait until my dog and I pass. It is not a space issue he just does this to everyone. I’ve spoken to other dog owners who also feel it is rude and the situation is uncomfortable and puts unnecessary pressure on their dog. I think he thinks he is being polite and I understand that he is being consistent with his training but it is not beneficial for my walk or the walks of some other dog owners’ who I’ve spoken to for several reasons and I’m curious to hear respectful advice and opinions.
- it takes us twice as long to pass them when they’re holding still
- it prolongs a stare down and makes my dog uncomfortable
- I think my dog takes it as a challenge or a territorial thing, it makes the whole walk past him so tense and there’s no escape unless I just turn and walk the other direction which when I’m headed home isn’t an option.
- my dog loves seeing other dogs and wants to go up to them, I always redirect her and remind her to focus on her walk and even reward her with treats but when they’re just holding still it is confusing to her if they are inviting her to visit or challenging her, either way I keep it moving.
So I’m not sure if there are particular benefits to his approach, the seated dog appears to be an invitation to interact, which can cause my young high-energy dog to get even more excited or frustrated.
Should I do something different? I’ve thought about copying him a few times and just pausing our walk until he gets the picture and walk past me. For me the ideal situation crossing paths with another walker and their dog is no one changes speed, you try to make room for each other to comfortably pass and you say “hi, good morning” when you’re close enough and then keep walking.
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