Briefly: adult collie is herding the puppy, over-correcting him, and often acting jealous. Puppy just wants to play – any advice on getting them to coexist with less growling would be great. He is already distracted away when he pesters to play – she isn't being left to deal with an excitable baby.
Puppy is a large sighthound cross – 17 weeks and 14kg, expecting him to be 40kg+. He is already the same size as the adults. Been with me less than a month. Adult dog is a mix of collie breeds, from farm lines – she's very much a working dog. We also have her sibling, he's not the slightest bothered by or interested in the puppy.
Collie is very bossy, very much the fun police (she will "fetch" her sibling, and stop him from doing anything she decides is naughty). Both adults get a lot of puppy-free time; they're not living together all week, and on top of that we make sure they get individual attention when they're in the same house. But she's an absolute cow to the puppy – she herds him into one spot and won't let him move, she growls and often over-corrects him for such cardinal sins as walking past her and existing when she comes for a fuss. She gets a time out when the over-correction starts – but we don't tell her off for a first correction.
Puppy asks her to play but is getting frustrated that his overtures are resulting in a telling off – but he is determined and despite getting removed and then distracted, he wants to be her bestie. The more she tells him off, the worse he wants her to love him. They both respond well to side-by-side training (he's just about gotten sit and lie down) or outside walks. But if anyone has ideas on how to get them both to be cool with the other, that'd be great.
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