Hi everyone! My 6.5 month Cavalier x Bichon has always been a fantastic sleeper at night. He sleeps in his crate from about 9 pm to 7:30 am, with very rare issues. He doesn’t usually wake up in the night, and usually sleeps until my husband gets up for work, or only a little earlier.
One thing to note is that he’s not very food motivated. We’ve tried lots of different foods and he’s not bothered and it’s always a struggle to get him to eat. So we don’t really have that option for enrichment. He also doesn’t care for Kongs or lick mats, and I’ve tried everything on them. If anything requires too much work for him to get he just doesn’t care. He likes some treats but doesn’t really eat his kibble.
The issue I’m struggling with at the moment is the fact that he just will not settle down at all. He gets so overtired and overstimulated that he humps me and my husband (or any other person he can) quite persistently. He’s barky and bitey and whiny for attention. It’s relentless. This is always worse during his witching hour (or 3) before bed, where he’s overtired but simply will not settle down. But it’s becoming a problem during the day as well.
When he was younger, we used to just crate him for enforced naps because he’s not very good at self regulation or self soothing, but lately he’s refusing to settle in the crate during the day or while we’re at home. He will bark at full volume, which worries me with neighbours and means we can’t use our sitting room (only place for his crate). If I let him stay out of the crate he would basically just terrorise me without ever sleeping. I can play and play with him until he’s falling asleep, or take him for walks, but then he’s quickly back up and biting, humping, barking whilst yawning and getting increasingly unhinged – so the crate feels like the only option.
If we leave the house he is silent, doesn’t mind the crate or being left – though he doesn’t seem very well rested when we get back, so I think he wakes a lot listening to see if we’re back yet.
Any advice? Or am I doing the right thing and it’s just a case of persisting until he grows out of it?
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