sorry I'm posting to this reddit a lot!! i have a 5m old chihuahua and he is a brilliant little boy. I live in an apartment and controversially I've actually been happy for him to go potty on a pad sometimes (only when i let him, i dont have it down all the time) and we've worked out a system that works for us. we've been doing a combination of outdoor and indoor, some days he is 100% outdoor potty and some days he has a mix depending on if our routine has changed (e.g. the below issue) and im working towards entirely outdoors but im not putting the pressure on massively, mainly because of the following issues. for nearly a full month we've had no accidents at all, he's always going on a pad or outdoors, so i consider it a half success for now
the problem is, i didnt realise until now how rough my area is that i live in. i take him on a minimum of 3 walks a day, and the 6am walk is usually fine, no one else is up yet round here other than other dog walkers
the lunchtime walk is hit and miss – a lot of people have reactive dogs around here that lunge at him and they insist on trying to "let them say hi" and i have to be firm and say im teaching him neutrality but they always say "what's that". i also seem to get the weirdos come up to him and try and pet him which he hates, and i have to step between them. safe to say, neutrality training is going awful because of this, despite colourful "DOG IN TRAINING" harness and leads. he's started pulling to smell people passing which is not what i want at all
the biggest problem as of recently is a new neighbour who lets their very big and very badly trained breed run around in the carpark/street, off lead. we were on a walk and the dog came right over and i was shouting for the owner. i picked my boy up in a panic which elevated the situation. the owner eventually came out and i asked several times if he was a friendly dog and he didnt reply, just was screaming for the dog to come back, so i assume not. he said the dog keeps breaking through the fences, but when i looked his gate was literally wide open and no holes in the fence so i think either the dog has worked out the latch or they arent vigilant at closing it. This dog is a major problem in our area and everyone who walks their dogs in the nearby green patch has been heard screaming for the neighbour at some point this week to come and get the dog, one lady walked it back holding the collar and informed the neighbour it had gotten out again but he didnt seem fussed, and one man was so angry as his dog was having her first season and this neighbours dog is unneutered. its incredibly irresponsible and has caused me a lot of anxiety now.
im scared, to be honest. its his favourite potty place and i feel like i just cant risk taking him there anymore. my plan is to take him the opposite direction, but what is the best way to handle the moments that the dog approaches? was picking him up wrong? im seeing the beginnings of some fear-based reactivity coming out in my boy and have booked in for some puppy classes to try and nip that in the bud, but walking him at night in the dark has become so fearful for me that tonight i put his pad out for him in fear of the dog being out there in the dark. am i being silly?
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