I recently had a stray 1yro havanese dropped into my life. it was unexpected but I have a house with a fenced yard and thought maybe a new dog would be a good thing. so I decided to keep her. I'm at the point now, where I'm looking for a professional trainer, to adopt her from me. I've done everything. consistent training daily. positive reinforcement. she runs every day until she can't stand anymore. I will stand with this dog outside for 20 minutes, bring her in, and before I can get her into the kennel, she's dropped down and is peeing on my floor. I've tried everything. kennel training. potty training. pee pads. heck I even got her diapers. nothing works. training with her is like talking to a brick wall. she doesn't care what kind of treat I have, how delicious it is. she won't even look at me when I'm trying to train her. refuses to give me any kind of attention. "come" falls on deaf ears. if I didn't know better, I'd assume she was completely deaf. she has extreme separation anxiety. I cant even check the mail without her going ballistic inside. she's destroying my house and has cost me hundreds in repairs in just the couple months I've had her. I've had to replace every single area rug I own, as well as my bathroom door. I'm beyond knowing what to do to help her. advice, suggestions, etc. anything will help. but at this point I'm looking for a new home for her. but I refuse to give her to someone who doesn't have the time, kindness, love, and patience I have. the only reason I'm giving up, is because I'm a severely depressed person, and every single day I spend upwards of 3hrs fixing something she's destroyed, and recently I've had issues even getting out of bed and taking care of myself. I have had dogs my whole life and never had one that is this resistant to training, listening, obeying, calming down, etc. I'm just at a loss. please be kind in the replies but really, anything helps at this point. I don't know what to do.
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