My husband and I rescued a mixed breed puppy about 2 months ago, and she’s driving us crazy. Some info about her: She’s now about 6 months old and weighs about 30 pounds. We did a doggy DNA test, and she’s a mix of 19 different dogs – all of them with some sort of working background. Biggest percentages are catahoula leopard dog (18%) and GSD (17%). We don’t know much about her life before us, except that she seemed very undernourished/malnourished, had fleas when the rescue got her, and had a scar on her face about the size of a penny where the fur is probably never going to regrow.
About our family: we’re repeat dogs owners and have been exceptionally lucky. Our first two were mixed breed littermates who we managed to avoid any littermate syndrome with. They were honestly not that bright but were very kind and good tempered, and we loved them lots. Our third (and current) is a 2.5 year old 100 pound black lab/mastiff mix who is pretty much my heart outside of my body. She is the sweetest most lovely dog I’ve ever met. For all of our past dogs, we really haven’t had to focus much on obedience. It’s been more about making sure they were calm and kind, and we’ve had a lot of success.
So what’s going on with our puppy? She is SUPER reactive to food. She barks constantly when we’re getting her meals together (she’s always fed with a snuffle mat) and she practically launched herself into her kennel where she eats. When she even sees the treat bag come out for training, she loses her mind and barks and jumps and tries to grab it. I’ve had a fair amount of success teaching her leave it, but that impulse control isn’t translating to anything else. She gets CRAZY zoomies where she ping pongs herself around the room for up to 15 minutes at a time. She barks at us whenever she gets frustrated, like when our other dog is chewing a toy she wants or pretty much whenever we tell her no. She still bites a lot when she gets excited/overstimulated. Today, we had some friends over to play a board game, and it was like the presence of other people in the house was just too much. She kept jumping on our friends over and over, barking incessantly, etc. We even gave her a bully stick that she would chew for 30 seconds, then drop it and bark at us. We’d give it back to her, rinse and repeat. I was so frustrated that I was almost in tears.
She just seems to have no emotional regulation or impulse control, and I don’t know how to train her to develop that. I haven’t had to with any of our other dogs, and I feel like I’m failing her. She had a winter coat that she seems to love wearing and appears to often have some sort of a calming effect. When she gets super amped, if I hold her and try to coregulate somatically, she just kind of melts into me with relief but then runs off crazy again 50% of the time.
The thing is I know there’s a good dog in there. Sometimes, she can be so cute and sweet and smart and playful. And I know part of the problem is that she’s teething. But that’s not the whole problem, and I don’t know what to do. I know it’s on us as her people to help her learn, but I don’t know how to handle this. I’m happy to answer any follow up questions to help direct me towards techniques or resources. Thanks in advance for your help!
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