Hello,
I have a male Cocker Spaniel who is 1 year and 8 months old.
This summer, we wanted to go on vacation and leave him at a boarding kennel for a week. We've already done lots of tests at the daycare center, and things are going relatively well. He is treated well and plays with other dogs, even though he is fearful of humans and too attached to us…
But this boarding facility (and others) systematically requires surgical neutering (not chemical), and I admit that I am very afraid to do it.
My cocker spaniel is quite fearful, I would say, or emotionally unstable:
– He is adorable with almost all dogs, but some males are very aggressive towards him (stressful on every walk), but he does nothing (or on rare occasions my dog growl and bark once a year at another dog).
– He is very fearful of humans, especially children and adults who stare him in the eyes. He barks and tries to run away. But we can take him downtown without any problems. As long as no one tries to touch him, he doesn't react and just goes about his business.
– He is a little overly attached to us. At the boarding kennel, we are working on this gradually by leaving him for only a few hours at a time, because he whines quite a bit before finally moving on to something else.
I have read that neutering can amplify problems in fearful dogs, so I am very anxious about having him neutered.
– I would be happy if the other males stopped attacking him and if I could go out without feeling sick to my stomach.
– I'm afraid he'll become even more fearful/barky around strangers.
– If he can stop peeing every 30 seconds outside, that's a bonus, but indoors he doesn't do anything and he's never mounted a single female dog.
What do you think?
Photo of the puppy
https://imgur.com/a/LlCOB8S