Category: Top Dog

Hi everyone –

We have a 8.5-week old golden female retriever that we brought home 4 days ago. I'm asking a question about crate training because we're not sure what our next step would be in this case. Sorry if it comes across as a repeat question!

She is doing pretty well with the crate. Most of the time with the crate door open, she is happy to go and eat her food, lie down to nap, etc. However, when we want her to self-soothe to calm down and nap, she will sit there for a bit but start whining, wanting to get out. I don't think she's stressed. I think she's just bored and wants to play with us.

We have toys and food, and we take her out before we try to put her in the crate—lot of the times, we can successfully get her to walk in by herself. If we put a collagen stick in with her, she can stay calm very consistently, but I am not sure if we should always rely on that. Currently, we only do that when she becomes way overstimulated.

In this situation, what should be our next step? We don't want to let her whine and turn the crate into a negative place, but we also want her to be able to self-soothe in the crate, but I am not sure what the best next step would be in this scenario. Most posts and videos talk about how to create the initial positive associations or treat severe crying and barking. I feel like we are in a bit of a middle ground.

I'm not impatient about this, but we simply just don't know what the next step to do would be. Thank you so much for your advice!

5 months old Labrador good as gold but sometimes when she goes on a walk that is the type of Behavior I get don't know how to get her to stop it's just gets embarrassing

Bringing home my first puppy ever. I have no idea where to start. I have had many dogs but they were always 3-4 years old when we got them. I have been reading up on puppy schedules and I know enough from experience that you do not give them full rein of the house but to keep them limited to a room and that they must always be supervised.

The puppy is a little over 3 months old. I have other dogs in the house that are 6 years old and 10. I have so many questions but will focus on these:

1. is it even possible to crate train the puppy if the adult dog is not crated and has free rein of the house?

2. The puppy spent all of her 3 months with a littermate 24/7. How do I deal with that kind of separation anxiety?

3. I feel embarrassed asking this one. How do I leave the house? It’s going to take time to crate train, right? If I put her in a smaller room, she’s never really been alone and I’m sure will make a fuss.

Yeah, I do feel like I bit off more than I can chew and should have done more to prepare.

My 7-month-old Maltipoo has just started showing some signs of adolescence / reactivity. He was never an aggressive puppy. He barely bit during teething, if anything he would bite his own paws. He has loved people and dogs since the start, though he would be timid with new people and warm up to them eventually. He had never even barked until he turned 6-months-old.

Recently, he has been barking and growling at anything that moves (especially people and dogs), and he is also way more sensitive to random sounds than before. I think it's based off fear, but I also have no idea what he's thinking. He has always had a bit of separation anxiety, so wondering if anxiety in general plays a part in this. He also just got neutered, if that matters.

When did adolescence end for you?! I'm seeing posts about it being 18-24 months (oh hell no), and I am kind of freaking out. Also, if you have tips of adolenscent reactivity, please feel free to share.

I’m not sure if my 5 month old puppy is tired or bored or disinterested. Today he didn’t really seem interested in his walk, we walked maybe 20 minutes and he decided to lay down and just people watch. We live in an apartment complex so I took him to the garden so he can relax and I can sit next to him and he did the same thing. He just laid down even though I tried to play with him. He seemed to pull on the grass and chew on it. After a while,I had some of his treats with me and I had him sniff them out in the grass which he was doing since he’s very food motivated. Later in the day I tried again to take him out for a walk and I we ended up walking to the dog park. He played and he seemed to enjoy his time there.

Every time I try to get him to walk out of the apartment he makes it out of the door and just sits in the hallway so I’m not sure if he’s tired of his routine or bored of doing it consistently. He’s also been sleeping 8 hrs at night with 2-3 naps that last around 2 hours on my days off. He goes to daycare twice a day and stays with my parents 3 times a week since he can run around their yard while I work. On my days off we usually go on sniff walks every 2-3 hours and during meals I either train or have him sit and chase his food while I throw it. I’m not sure if I’m being boring with him or how else to add enrichment. I am planning to buy a flirt pole since he has a high prey drive and we’re going to see a trainer on Wednesday so hopefully I can be better for him. Any advice would be appreciated.

My 6‑month‑old Lab has been going through some nighttime crate regression, and I’m curious how others handled this stage.

For context, his crate is in the room next to our bedroom. This might be on me because my boyfriend was away on a work trip, and during that time I let our puppy sleep in our bedroom in his dog bed. He slept great in our room, didn’t need to get up to potty, and actually got a full night’s rest.

But when he’s in the crate, he hasn’t been sleeping through the night and it really seems like he has trouble settling in there.

We still plan on using the crate when we leave him home for short periods, so I’m not trying to ditch crate training altogether. I’m just wondering what people think about letting him sleep in his dog bed in our room at night instead of crating him. Is this a normal transition around this age? Did it cause issues for anyone long term?

Would love to hear what worked for you and your pups.

Hi all. We have a one year and 3 month old PWD. At night time, we sleep upstairs in our bed and he sleeps in his crate (unlocked) downstairs. We used to have a pen attached to the crate when he was younger.

Every night before we go to bed, we try to let him in our backyard to poop. We have waited 30 minutes sometimes, but he never poops at night. Ever.

When we used the pen, he would not poop in the pen or crate. However, since we have gotten rid of the pen, he will now poop downstairs.

We do not want to use the pen forever as it’s extremely bulky, and he can be trusted with being alone downstairs (save the nighttime poops). We also know that closing him inside the crate at night is a recipe for disaster as he will scream the house down.

I’m not sure where we failed and prevented setting him up for success, and I’m not sure where we go from here. The worst part is he doesn’t really cry for the bathroom, even during the day. He just paws at the door and we can’t hear that from upstairs. Sometimes he will whine. But at night, it’s dead quiet, so we don’t know to get up and let him out. He just does it. At best, he will cry and be vocal AFTER.

Any tips or advice is appreciated because we know this isn’t sustainable and we need to do something different.

was anyone else really reluctant to return their puppy even tho they had BAD puppy blues? i feel so bad for returning my 10 week border collie and its only been a week. i’m still young and idk why my parents agreed to me having a puppy, the sudden change in my routine stressed me out a crap ton since i’m already terrible with change. don’t get me wrong, i love my puppy but the constant biting, pooping and peeing everywhere is really starting to get me. everyday i would get at least 6k steps from taking care of my puppy alone. i also put a ton of pressure on myself, to train my dog the absolute best and make sure he doesn’t have any health issues. another reason why i wanna return him is because i can’t handle seeing another one of my pets die again, even tho i know dogs don’t die until like a decade later. did any other puppy parent return their dog and how did it feel? how were you able to cope with the emotions and should i wait longer to see if i actually wanna keep the dog? i do really love him

my puppy is around 4-5 months old and is a terrier (best guess is a smooth fox terrier) but he is definitely a mix of some kind.

I want to get to the point where he can be completely freeroam and have the downstairs for himself to roam, ive puppy proofed it and am going to put a puppy gate on the stairs (this means hed get the whole living and kitchen area), hes currently crated in our bedroom when we arent home or when he needs a rest but he keeps toiletting in the crate so my best thought is to remove the crate entirely and restart the toilet training process.

I do still think it would be safest to use the crate overnight though as we have 4 other animals (3 cats and a chihuahua) and he is quite boisterous and always excited by them but im just really not sure what to do and i also feel like even if i think ive puppy proofed downstairs im worried hes gonna somehow find Something.

Hi all me again with the 11 week cocker spaniel

Thank you all so much for the help and advice recently, hes at 7.5 hours in crate with 0 accidents overnight.

Now i would like to ask/get advice with training. He know sit, lie down, hi 5 (paw) and done well with wait (not fully there yet say 50%), off, enough (for biting feets, teething landshark yay)

But he doesnt do well as of now with return (responds to name somewhat, but is easily distracted) and retrieve (loves getting ball, but doesnt want to return ball as an example) and impulse control.

Any tips to help with training him, its hard to see if its all too much at once.

Ive got puppy classes booked in 3 weeks for him (Timings didnt work out or would have been sooner)

Il stress i know hes still a puppy and isnt going to be perfect.

Thank you all again!