this is the second week since i got her and i am not sure about anything anymore , i wanted a dog who's at least a year or older but ended up getting a puppy because the shelter told me she was compatible with me and my living situation , this is going to sound very superficial and i feel extreemely guilty and angry at myself when i get this thought but i didn't choose her , she dosen't look like the dog i imagined i would get as my first dog .. it's stupid and disgusting way of thinking but i actually wanted a male dog from a different breed , but souldn't say no because i felt guilty that her former owner also returned her to the shelter .. idk what to do , everytime she makes an accident or keeps crying this thought pops in my head .. she is currently teething an i am struggeling , i can't sleep ,eat , or do any activities in peace . should i just return her? or should i keep her and things will get better? she is so sweet and gentle and i hate myself for typing this post but i am not sure what to do … anyone been in the same situation? did it change for you?
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